Ella

What appeals to you about this profession – at 34?

„The freedom and the honesty. Both sides know what this is about, no one has to pretend. I've had enough relationships with more lying in them than here."

What makes a truly good evening for you?

„When at some point we stop behaving. The moment the conversation gets quieter and both of us know we're about to stop talking – that's my favourite moment."

What do you get the most compliments for?

„My legs and my posture. And that I look like dresses were made for me – size 36 and 173 cm do have their advantages."

What makes you feel sexiest?

„Hold-up stockings, a silk slip, nothing else. Or a tight black dress with an open back – I like it when you sense rather than see."

Do you prefer to lead or be led?

„I lead lightly. Not loud, not dominant in the classic sense – I simply set the pace. If a man takes over confidently, I happily hand it over. But he has to take it."

Where does every touch land immediately for you?

„The nape of my neck and the top of my inner thighs. Slow, with intent. Anyone who gets hasty there loses me."

What does perfect foreplay mean to you?

„A lot of time and very little talking. Kissing until it lasts uncomfortably long. I like tension being built rather than worked through."

Facesitting, toys, roleplay – how open are you really?

„Very. At 34 there's nothing left I'm ashamed of. I say what I want, and I ask what he wants. That's the whole trick."

Your favourite position?

„On top. I like to see what I'm doing to him. And afterwards from behind, when I want to let go – hand on my neck, nothing else."

A kink you wouldn't guess about you?

„I like staying dressed while he no longer is. A dress, stockings, heels – and him long past being able to stay calm."

Dirty talk?

„Quiet and very direct. I don't get loud, I get clear. That works stronger on most men."

What do you find unerotic?

„Hurry. And men who check their phones during the evening. I give full attention and expect it back."