Jana

Your favourite position – and why exactly that one?

„Cowgirl. I like having control, setting the pace and watching what I do to him. Once he can't keep his hands still, I know I'm doing everything right."

On top or underneath – where do you feel more comfortable?

„On top. Always. I'm happy to hand over control elsewhere, but in bed I like being the one who decides how fast it goes."

Toys – yes or no? And if so, which ones?

„Definitely yes. A good vibrator is part of my basic kit, and for together I like bullets you can bring into sex. Anything that adds intensity without becoming the main event."

What turns you on instantly, no detours?

„A firm hand on the back of my neck. If a man knows how to take hold without being rough, I'm in within seconds."

Gentle or a bit rougher?

„I like the switch. Slow at first, kissed and teased until I'm almost begging – and then it's allowed to get really demanding. Anyone who only knows one speed bores me."

Where does every touch land immediately on your body?

„The inside of my thighs and the nape of my neck. Whoever goes there with their mouth instead of their hands has me weak within a minute."

A kink or preference nobody would guess about you?

„I love being watched. Lights on, mirror angled across the room – if he sees what he's doing to me and I see what I'm doing to him, that's a different league for me."

Lingerie or nothing at all?

„Lingerie. But the right kind: black lace, garters, no bra underneath. He's allowed to take it off himself – and heaven help him if he rips it without asking first."

Oral sex – giving or receiving?

„Honestly? Both – but if I have to choose: giving. I love the moment a man completely loses control. That's the most honest sight there is, to me."

Where did you have the hottest sex you can't forget?

„The balcony of a hotel room in Barcelona, four in the morning, the city still awake beneath us. Not because of the location – because of him. Some nights don't stick with you because of the place."

Quickie or slow and long?

„Both in one evening. A fast one before dinner, because we can't wait until dessert – and then everything again later, unhurried, with no clock."

What does a man do in bed that instantly loses you?

„When he only thinks of himself and doesn't check if I'm with him. Sex is a dialogue. Whoever talks alone has to stop alone too."

What does a man do in bed that you get addicted to?

„When he takes the time to read me. That one gentle pressure in the right spot, the quiet 'stay just like that' – whoever pays attention gets everything from me."

Sex in the dark or by candlelight?

„Candlelight. I want to see and be seen. Dark is for sleeping."

Your biggest turn-on, honestly?

„A man who waits. Who watches me, takes his time, builds the moment until I'm the one making the first move. That second before the first kiss is incomparable to me."

And your biggest turn-off?

„Rushing. And men who talk beforehand about how good they are. Show me – or say nothing."